Weddings and Funerals in the time of Covid-19

We know you’re tired of hearing the phrase “in these uncertain times”, but no phrase applies better to officiating life ceremonies right now. It is so difficult to “celebrate” anything in a pandemic, and yet life is still going on. As of...

What is a Humanist funeral?

As we get older, we all have to face the inevitability of the death of our loved ones. And in doing so, we have to come to terms with how we want to celebrate the lives they led. Memorial services are an important part of the grieving process, and can make a huge...
Should We Write Our Own Vows?

Should We Write Our Own Vows?

The vows are a memorable part of many weddings. They are not legally required, but they can be a very personal and meaningful part of the ceremony – and are often intensely emotional as well. Some of the couples we marry have a clear idea about what they want...

Theme Wedding!

After five years of performing weddings, I was finally asked to dress up for a theme wedding this past October. Matthew and I met with Dave and Alexi, who were happy to have found a Humanist Officiant who reflected their values, and we had a great talk about Humanism...

What happens during the registry signing?

One of the legal aspects of the wedding ceremony is the signing of the Marriage Licence and the Officiant’s Marriage Register. This signing, which takes place after the Officiant proclaims the couple married, confirms that the marriage has taken place and that the...

How do I get a marriage licence?

To get married by a registered Humanist Officiant in Ontario, you need to get a Marriage Licence. You can get this document from any city hall, town hall, or municipal office in Ontario. It does not have be issued from the city you are getting married in, or even the...
What is a humanist wedding ceremony?

What is a humanist wedding ceremony?

For millennia, religious institutions have governed people’s life passages. Weddings, funerals, welcoming new children into the community – worldwide, these were strictly religious ceremonies. But recently, as our society becomes more secular and religion...